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Rated on Amazon #1 BEST SELLER - 2020, 2021, 2022, 2023, 2024 and 2025 #2 MOST WISHED FOR - 2020, 2021, 2022, 2023 and 2024 #3 MOST WISHED FOR - 2024 and 2025 #1 MOST GIFTED - 2020, 2021, 2022, 2023, and 2024

Are you separating or thinking of separating?

If you're asking yourself, is this book for me? Here's some of the blurb from the backcover:
If you are, or someone you know is:• going through a separation• facing family law legal proceedings• overwhelmed by the idea of having to go to court,then this book may quite possibly save your sanity and your savings!
Helen Slater had no legal experience whatsoever when she began self-representing, yet she managed and negotiated her own family law legal proceedings as a self-represented litigant on property settlement, children arrangements and divorce, with very favourable outcomes.
Throughout this book Helen shares her own personal journey of separation, it’s impact and challenges. She highlights the associated legal information as well as sharing insights to gain clarity, reduce overwhelm and get organised.
Written in easy to understand language, it provides a simple overview demystifying those legal aspects involved in a separation and gives some insight into:
• the process and stages• the paperwork• roles and responsibilities• associated costs• potential outcomes.
It also includes some helpful strategies and frameworks that can help you to: • embrace change• feel empowered• communicate effectively with others• regain focus and rebuild your life.
When you’re more informed, and less emotional, you’ll be in a better position to make sensible decisions.
My separation left me emotionally challenged and financially damaged. Yet I've survived and thrived!
Spurred on by friends and family I've combined my 30 years’ in personal development and my self-representing legal experience to help empower others.
In this book I share my insights in a way that everyone can understand.
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Rated* on Amazon #1 BEST SELLER - 2020, 2021, 2022, 2023, 2024 and 2025. #2 MOST WISHED FOR - 2024, January to April 2025 #1 MOST GIFTED - January, February 2024 Amazon HOT NEW RELEASE - 2020
* Divorce section
Rated Amazon #1 BEST SELLER and #2 MOST WISHED FOR and #1 MOST GIFTED

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⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ Amazon Reviews

PRICELESS INFORMATION TO HELP YOU GET THROUGH SEPARATION/DIVORCE If only this book was available when I needed it to Survive and Thrive though a separation!!! Very well written and contains so much relevant information for those having to plough their way through the legal process to finalise separation/divorce. The information the author has given is easy to follow and adds humour to her own personal journey. I would strongly recommend anyone who is in the process of separation/divorce to get their hands on this book and take it all in. Solicitors give you their professional information which at times is difficult to understand and full of legal jargon. Helen very clearly helps you not only with the legal aspects but also to look within yourself and shows you just how possible it is to come out the other side with a positive mindset. This book if full of such practical advice. Thank you Helen for sharing your story and showing us how to keep it simple and Survive and Thrive for the next chapter of our lives post-separation/divorce. Brilliant read for anyone separating Loved this book which cuts through the jargon of separation making it easy to understand and less overwhelming. Great to hear Helen's personal stories which have given her so much insight on the separation process. Just reading this book makes everything seem easier and it helps that Helen adds some light-hearted humour to put everything into perspective. If you read this book I reckon you will actually get a better outcome when you divorce, it will certainly make it less costly and less stressful. Knowledge is power! Invaluable information for people going through separationI borrowed this book through my local library and found it very easy to read. It explains what you need to know when contemplating separation and then going through with it. It covers everything you need and more. I found it easy to follow and refer back to the bits that apply more to my situation. I will recommend it to anyone I know going through separation.
ALL Aussies going through a separation should read this book!Full of useful information. Covers everything on what to expect, what to consider, AND lawyers costs too! Very insightful.

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With a combination of knowledge, experience and vulnerability to share it all, Helen Slater was able to reach Amazon Bestseller Status for her first book Survive and Thrive Through Your Separation. Listen to her journey here......
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